Connected Lives (Part One)

Monday, March 31, 2008


My gen­er­a­tion is com­prised of folks who remem­ber life with­out much tech­nol­ogy. Some­times we joke around about it.

My girl­friends and I laugh about how our par­ents used to make us get off the tele­phone in the evening and on week­ends. We spent all day together at school, but still found things to talk about at night. I remem­ber abus­ing my “phone priv­i­leges” and hav­ing my Princess-style phone removed from my bed­room for a week. It still stands out in my mind as one of the longest weeks of my life.

Just the other day I was telling some­one that I com­muted 45 miles to attend law school. For the most part, my classes were in the evening — 6:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. Dur­ing a por­tion of the four-year pro­gram, I was preg­nant. No, I did not have a cell phone. Today, I don’t walk across the street with­out my cell phone. Well, Black­berry, actu­ally. I have a per­sonal Black­berry. And one that I use solely for busi­ness. I wouldn’t dream of dri­ving 45 miles with­out tak­ing along my Blackberry.

While an under­grad­u­ate, my room­mate and I spent a lot of time in the com­puter lab — run­ning For­tran on punch cards that were processed through a main­frame. We had to “batch” our cards in a par­tic­u­lar fash­ion and put them in a bin. Peri­od­i­cally, a tech­ni­cian would emerge, gather up the cards, run the pro­grams and then gen­er­ate a report detail­ing how effi­ciently the pro­grams ran. Usu­ally, we received an error report. It was printed on wide green and white bar paper. I haven’t seen that type of paper in many years.

Later, when I returned to school to com­plete my Bach­e­lor of Sci­ence degree in Account­ing, I learned Lotus 123, Peachtree, and Word­Per­fect. The com­puter lab I haunted in those days was stocked with Lead­ing Edge dual floppy com­put­ers. In 1988, I bought one so that I could work at home. I still have it packed away in a closet. I also pur­chased a mono­chrome mon­i­tor and Epson “let­ter qual­ity” printer. I recall being so excited because my printer had two fonts: Times and arial. Life got even bet­ter when I dis­cov­ered a share­ware pro­gram that enabled me to run pro­grams from a menu rather than DOS prompts. Yes, that was before Win­dows. I paid $1,800 for the com­puter, mon­i­tor and printer.

But I was com­pletely “over the moon” the day that a law school class­mate agreed to come to my house and help me install a modem. 2400 baud. Dial-up, of course. I was freed from the law library and able to per­form legal research at home at night while my old­est child (who cel­e­brated his 21st birth­day yes­ter­day) slept and my hus­band was at work.

It all seems like so many life­times ago.

Do you ever won­der what impact tech­nol­ogy is hav­ing upon your life or the lives of your fam­ily mem­bers? Do you ever spend time recall­ing what your life was like before you had a cell phone, Black­berry or iPhone, desk­top computer(s) in your home, lap­top, portable DVD player(s) (do you have one in your car?), television(s) broad­cast­ing hun­dreds of chan­nels in every room of your house? Do you remem­ber com­mu­ni­cat­ing with other human beings using a medium other than email?

Do you remem­ber life with­out the Inter­net? Do you remem­ber life with­out blogs?

Do you ever totally dis­con­nect from any and all forms of technology?

Do you pon­der what impact being con­stantly con­nected to tech­nol­ogy in one form or another and absorb­ing so much infor­ma­tion day after day is hav­ing upon your psy­cho­log­i­cal and phys­i­cal health and well-being?

In the next five install­ments of this series, I will explore those ques­tions and more. In prepa­ra­tion, I’m giv­ing you an assign­ment: Dur­ing the com­ing week, pay atten­tion to the types of and ways in which you uti­lize tech­nol­ogy through­out the day. Be con­scious of your habits as they relate to tech­nol­ogy, and when you uti­lize a device, think about a time in your life when you did not have access to it. For instance, when you use your cell phone, think about what your life was like before you owned a cell phone or, per­haps, dur­ing your early days of cell phone own­er­ship. What type of phone did you ini­tially own and did you use it the same way and as exten­sively as you use your cell phone today? How was your life dif­fer­ent in those days? Do you think that your qual­ity of life has improved or decreased in rela­tion­ship to tech­nol­ogy? And, of course, con­tem­plate how you write now as opposed to how you wrote dur­ing other time peri­ods in your life. What has changed? What impact has tech­nol­ogy had upon your writ­ing? Do you think that you are a bet­ter writer now?


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1 Steve Elliott Monday, March 31, 2008 at 3:18 pm

Tech­nol­ogy has opened so many new avenues and the advance­ments take my breath away. Most in a pos­i­tive way but not all.

Yes, we com­mu­ni­cate in lots of won­der­ful new ways, but are they ben­e­fi­cial. In the good ‘ol days you had to learn to engage with peo­ple, con­verse with them and make proper con­ver­sa­tion. All you need now is soli­tude and a PC with inter­net connection.

Mobiles/cells mean we are never out of reach, but is half of what is said rel­e­vant or use­ful. Do young­sters really ben­e­fit from text talk or MSN?

When was the last day that your fam­ily all sat down and did some­thing together that didn’t involve tech­nol­ogy? And how much more fun was it?

Don’t get me wrong, I am a gad­get freak.…but I miss how sim­ple fam­ily life used to be.…or I may be wear­ing rose tinted glasses again!

2 Kity Tuesday, April 1, 2008 at 12:39 am

Tech­nol­ogy is a dream that be fact, make easy ones in do activ­i­ties, and that dream not ever end. Tech­nol­ogy always bloom at the world. You remem­ber away back first per­son com­mu­ni­cat­ings long dis­tance uses smoke, now so easy by using Blackberry,hi and very amaze is inter­net. So what we get from all? yeah…EASE

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3 Home furniture Tuesday, April 1, 2008 at 12:05 am

Hi, this is my first time vis­it­ing this blog and i can tell i am going to really like it. This post really struck a chord with me, because my four year old either wants to watch TV, play a game on the com­puter or play with my cell­phone, and i often tell her that none of these options were avail­able to me when was grow­ing up, and she just looks at me as though she cant believe me!

4 Mike Air Tuesday, April 1, 2008 at 2:28 am

I was just think­ing the other day while I lis­tened to the Oldies radio sta­tion about how many of the songs were relat­ing to talk­ing and of course let­ter writ­ing in the pre-Beatles era.…. I can’t help but think of the role phones have played in the movies either.…. such as Donna Reed in “It’s a Won­der­ful Life” being so close to Jimmy Stew­art while talking.

I haven’t heard one song yet about the joys of cell phone use .…

5 Link Building Tuesday, April 1, 2008 at 12:49 pm

I per­son­ally think tech­nol­ogy is great, it makes the gap between peo­ple less i imag­ine, it relaly a won­der how easy it is to get in touch with some­one on the other side of the planet in only a few sec­onds. and so many new pos­si­bil­i­ties. still i do enjoy hav­ing time some­times away from phones and com­put­ers, to be with myself and maybe peo­ple out of flesh and bones. just for a change… :) all is great though and a bal­ance is what’s optional for me

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6 Entrepreneurs Thursday, April 3, 2008 at 1:44 am

We could attest on how tech­nol­ogy has devel­oped. From snail mail to e-mail, long dis­tance calls to IMs. Long list as a mat­ter of fact.

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7 Eva White Wednesday, April 9, 2008 at 10:18 pm

Our lives have seri­ously changed so much since our child­hood. TV cell phones, lap­tops have all become nec­es­saries which were once upon a time luxuries.

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