Your Online Writing Life: Protect Your Reputation — and Future (Part Two)

Monday, February 25, 2008

Last week, I wrote about the impor­tance of select­ing an email address that will appro­pri­ately con­vey pro­fes­sion­al­ism and good busi­ness sense.

But what about how you use that email account?

More and more, evi­den­tiary bat­tles in court­rooms around the world are focused upon elec­tronic data, with email trans­mis­sions fre­quently at the cen­ter of the debate. Today, busi­ness is rou­tinely con­ducted at every level of every orga­ni­za­tion via email. We are all per­pet­u­ally con­nected to our pro­fes­sional lives via our Black­ber­ries and lap­tops. We are all pro­fi­cient typ­ists, even though many of us type using no more than two fin­gers at any given time: Index fin­gers when a key­board is avail­able, thumbs to trans­mit mes­sages using our Blackberry.

And with the speed at which infor­ma­tion is trans­mit­ted comes the poten­tial for cat­a­strophic errors.

Five of the most com­mon pit­falls that we all must avoid include the following.

Reply all

You emailed this?Have you ever hit “reply all” when you really wanted to click on “reply”? Embar­rass­ing and/or harm­ful sit­u­a­tions can eas­ily be avoided if the sender takes the time to double-check whether he/she is respond­ing only to the com­poser of the mes­sage to which he/she is respond­ing. Many rela­tion­ships have been harmed — some irrepara­bly — because an email recip­i­ent responded with unkind, unflat­ter­ing or even mali­cious com­ments about one of the per­sons included on the dis­tri­b­u­tion list. Worse, con­fi­den­tial or priv­i­leged infor­ma­tion, includ­ing trade secrets, have acci­den­tally been leaked in this man­ner, lead­ing to lia­bil­ity. It only takes a moment to review the dis­tri­b­u­tion list, but that moment can make all the difference.

Reply all” includ­ing blind recipients

If the orig­i­nal sender of an email blind copied some of the recip­i­ents, any­one who responds by click­ing “reply all” may also trans­mit his/her com­ments to those blind recip­i­ents. The poten­tial for cat­a­stro­phe can­not be under­stated, espe­cially if blind copies are trans­mit­ted to clients, cus­tomers, com­peti­tors or oth­ers who should not be privvy to the response.

Auto email address completion

I once received an email via my busi­ness account that con­sisted solely of reli­gious pros­e­ly­tiz­ing. When I checked the iden­tity of the sender, I was shocked to see the name of a col­league I barely knew and with whom I had inter­acted only in the most tan­gen­tial fash­ion. So I picked up the tele­phone and called him. Con­sis­tent with my per­cep­tion about our rela­tion­ship, I had to tell him my name a cou­ple of times and remind him about the cir­cum­stances under which we met. When he finally remem­bered me, I asked him why he had just sent me an email con­tain­ing reli­gious pro­pa­ganda, even though he had absolutely no clue about my beliefs. He insisted that he had not sent me an email, so I began read­ing its con­tents to him. That’s when I heard the famil­iar gasp that we all rec­og­nize as the “uh oh” sound. He had intended to send the email to some­one whose name began with J-a-n … but in his haste, clicked on my name, stored in his email pro­gram from one prior usage, in error. He was jus­ti­fi­ably mor­ti­fied, but learned, I’m sure, a valu­able les­son about the neces­sity of using the auto fill-in fea­ture of Out­look or any other email soft­ware judi­ciously and responsibly.

Send” in haste

The last time I was given a typ­ing test was, of course, many years ago. But I remem­ber the proctor’s response: “I’ve never had any­body score as highly as you.” The score? 153 words per minute on an IBM Selec­tric. I never had to work at build­ing up my typ­ing speed, how­ever, because I was a pianist long before I became a typist.

These days, my speed is nei­ther unique nor par­tic­u­larly impres­sive. We all spend so much time using our com­put­ers that most peo­ple type as fast as if not faster than I do. And therein lies the danger.

We have all been guilty of typ­ing fast and furi­ous responses to email mes­sages, only to regret hit­ting “send” the very sec­ond we do so. Such behav­ior in a pro­fes­sional set­ting, how­ever, can have par­tic­u­larly dev­as­tat­ing con­se­quences, espe­cially if, for instance, your response was addressed to your super­vi­sor or man­ager or, worse, a client or customer.

Ques­tion­able content

It only takes a moment to stop and think about the con­tent of any email mes­sage you have just com­posed to assure that the con­tent is accept­able and appro­pri­ate for the cir­cum­stances. This is par­tic­u­larly true if the email con­tains any form of joke, teas­ing, dou­ble enten­dre or other mate­r­ial that might be per­ceived as unwel­come by the recipient(s).

If you have rea­son to won­der for even a mil­lisec­ond whether the con­tent of your mes­sage might upset or offend the recip­i­ent, the best course is to hit “delete” and not trans­mit it. “Bet­ter safe than sorry” is always the right approach, espe­cially in a pro­fes­sional or busi­ness context.

I peri­od­i­cally receive jokes, gags, humor­ous sto­ries, videos, etc. in email but I never pass them on using my pro­fes­sional account. If I receive some­thing that I want to share with friends or fam­ily, I for­ward the email to my per­sonal account and then delete it. I do not reply or for­ward the email to other recip­i­ents using my pro­fes­sional account. More­over, once it is received in my per­sonal “in” box, I copy and paste the mate­r­ial into a new email that I send on to friends and/or fam­ily to be sure that all meta­data is removed.

Email has made our lives eas­ier in many respects: We con­vey vast amounts of infor­ma­tion quickly, effi­ciently and almost effort­lessly. How­ever, the mis­use of email also has the con­comi­tant poten­tial to ruin rep­u­ta­tions, careers, and relationships.

Do you have expe­ri­ence with these or related issues? Leave a comment!


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1 Niche Annihilation Method Tuesday, February 26, 2008 at 4:08 am

I guard my pro­fes­sional email account jeal­ously. I usu­ally reply with a note to tell friends to email jokes and humor­ous sto­ries to my per­sonal email instead.

The size of these emails usu­ally are huge com­pared to any other email and they slow down my Out­look a lot.

2 meg Tuesday, February 26, 2008 at 9:46 am

I have always been guilty with “send in haste” phe­nom­e­non although I can never type as fast as you can. Great post.

3 Lin Tuesday, February 26, 2008 at 1:18 pm

All of these rec­om­men­da­tions are very impor­tant to pay close atten­tion to.

Words are very pow­er­ful, so we must always take the nec­es­sary time to ensure our intended mes­sage is actu­ally the mes­sage the reader receives.

Emails or text mes­sages can often­times become a cat­a­lyst for dis­agree­ments because the mes­sage being con­veyed was not skill­fully writ­ten in order to avoid con­fu­sion and misunderstandings.

Lin’s last blog post..Keep­ing the Fire Alive in Your Marriage

4 Pat R Tuesday, February 26, 2008 at 3:29 pm

An older ver­sion of Microsoft Out­look 3.0 there’s the abil­ity to recall an e-mail that you sent if the per­son you sent it to didn’t open it yet. Here’s a link with more information:http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/outlook/HA010917601033.aspx?pid=CL100626971033I don’t know if the newer ver­sions of Microsoft have this fea­ture or not. I know Microsoft Out­look Express doesn’t. I have MSN for my e-mail and it doesn’t have this fea­ture either. When I used this older ver­sion it was a very help­ful tool espe­cially if you sent out e-mails and for­got to add the attachment.Good post and infor­ma­tion. Cour­tesy always comes first.Pat R’s last blog post..Keep­ing the Faith

JHS 5 JHS Wednesday, February 27, 2008 at 1:10 am

Pat: Yes, I’m famil­iar with that fea­ture and it is still included in the lat­est ver­sion of Outlook.

The prob­lem is that it very rarely works. What you end up get­ting is the orig­i­nal mes­sage, fol­lowed by a notice that the sender wants to recall it. When­ever that hap­pens at the office, I always won­der what hap­pened that made the sender want to recall it. Fre­quently, that sec­ond email is fol­lowed by the new ver­sion of what­ever the orig­i­nal mes­sage was.

As the sender, vir­tu­ally every time I have tried to use that fea­ture, I’ve got­ten back a mes­sage say­ing “recall failed.”

So I think it’s great in con­cept, but the exe­cu­tion is lousy.

JHS

6 Pat R Wednesday, February 27, 2008 at 1:58 pm

When I was in the cor­po­rate world and used the recall fea­ture in Out­look it worked well. It was a handy tool and I miss it in MSN. I don’t know why it doesn’t work for you. Maybe it depends on the ver­sion of Out­look and maybe it’s just not as func­tional as it used to be. I used it late 90’s early 2000.

Thanks for let­ting me know.

Pat R’s last blog post..Keep­ing the Faith

7 Mrs. Micah Thursday, February 28, 2008 at 2:07 pm

One great thing about my col­lege e-mail account was that the cam­pus sys­tem was set up to allow senders to delete every copy of the e-mail that existed in the cam­pus e-mail system.

Kind of like the recall fea­ture, but it was hid­den away under the “Delete” options.

It saved me from a few hot-headed mes­sages to friends.

Another advan­tage was that you could tell if some­one had opened the mes­sage too. So you knew if it was point­less to recall or not.

As it is, I’ve got­ten a lot bet­ter about that since a few instances where I had to delete mes­sages in col­lege. My biggest fail­ing is not hit­ting “Reply All” where nec­es­sary. I think that’s a bet­ter habit to have than hit­ting it more often and send­ing out acci­den­tal mes­sages inappropriately.

8 Steve Elliott Saturday, March 1, 2008 at 5:49 pm

I have fallen foul to nearly all of those at one time or another in the not so dis­tant past.

One of the worst has to be auto­com­plete. My boss and brother both share the name Paul, a recipe for all kinds of disaster.

Even with Out­look, the recall func­tion will only work if the recip­i­ent hasn’t already read the mail, which could be too late.

Some great advice.

9 Hopeful Spirit Sunday, March 2, 2008 at 12:21 pm

Thanks so much for con­tribut­ing this post to The Sev­enth Day: Tenth Edi­tion blog car­ni­val at On the Hori­zon! Excel­lent advice! Stop by and check out the other excel­lent submissions!

Hope­ful Spirit’s last blog post..The Sev­enth Day: Tenth Edition

10 Glenn Palmer Sunday, June 8, 2008 at 5:31 pm

Excel­lent arti­cle! We should all keep in mind though, that email can not really be deleted. I work as a com­puter oper­a­tor at a large uni­ver­sity and know whereof I speak. We have often been ordered to retrieve email for the courts, some­times going back as far as five years. In fact Cana­dian law requires us to keep two years as a mat­ter of course. Those emails still exist either on disk or backup whether they show up in your inbox or not. Posts to forums and bul­letin boards are even worse. They get cached by the search engines and become a per­ma­nent part of the net.

JHS 11 JHS Sunday, July 6, 2008 at 11:44 pm

Glenn: Yes, you are right. And that’s why com­puter users need to be so pru­dent. Thanks for drop­ping by and con­firm­ing, from a tech­ni­cal stand­point, that the “shelf life” of com­puter con­tent is lit­er­ally infinite.

12 Steve Elliott Tuesday, July 8, 2008 at 4:09 pm

Thanks for the info Glenn. Pre­sum­ably the mails are cov­ered by all sorts of pri­vacy leg­is­la­tion and it is only with a court order that you would retrieve/release them?

13 Ps3 Gamer Friday, August 8, 2008 at 11:44 am

Don’t think google­mail has a reply all, nor does my domain email. So im ok!

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