Manic Show and Tell Monday (Volume Two)

Monday, February 8, 2010

1. What was your best day of the week last week and why?

That would be a toss-up between Fur­lough Fri­day and Sat­ur­day. On Fri­day, I took a ride up into the foothills with a life­long friend. We stopped for lunch at a cute lit­tle pizze­ria called Paisano’s (it was our sec­ond visit there) before head­ing on to the pawn shop in Jack­son. I did not buy any bling this time, but my friend did. I also pur­chased a ring for a good friend who lives in another state but is in the process of mov­ing back to Cal­i­for­nia. She wanted to take advan­tage of the Feb­ru­ary sale — all prices are reduced by 25 per­cent! So they both got great buys. I did not see any­thing I really wanted. Besides, I am sav­ing all of my money for my upcom­ing trip to New York City where I will again be per­form­ing at Carnegie Hall with the Stock­ton Con­cert Band.

On Sat­ur­day, I had brunch with three very long-time friends at Mimi’s Cafe in Elk Grove. We had a deli­cious meal and great conversation.

2. What’s the longest you’ve ever gone with­out sleep?

Prob­a­bly two to three days. In col­lege, I was known as “The Queen of the All-Nighter.” I was noto­ri­ous for cut­ting class much of the semes­ter. Then I stayedg up all day and all night before the final in order to cram into my brain all of the infor­ma­tion I was sup­posed to have learned dur­ing the term. Then I would take the final exam, come home, and collapse.

That was a pretty suc­cess­ful strat­egy until I began law school. Then I had to study the old fash­ioned way, i.e., daily, and attend class regularly.

3. Is how old you look and/or how old you feel right now dif­fer­ent from your actual age?

Peo­ple tell me that I don’t look my age. Are they just flat­ter­ing me? Yeah, some­times I’m sure that they are. But I do have a hard time say­ing my real age out loud because I don’t feel that I look that old and I sure don’t feel it. From time to time I do look in the mir­ror and expe­ri­ence a jolt! I won­der who that old lady in the mir­ror is. Then I have to accept that I am, in fact, look­ing at my own reflection.

I cheer up when I con­tem­plate the obvi­ous: The alter­na­tive is worse.

4. Tell about a snow­ball fight you had.

Wow, what year would that have been? Prob­a­bly 1991 … that’s the last time I remem­ber being in snow. We took #1Son, who was almost four years old, to see and play in snow. Big­Bob spent the after­noon rid­ing down the hill on an inner tube with him. I felt unwell, so I stayed at the bot­tom of the hill snap­ping pic­tures and cap­tur­ing some video footage.

Not long after that, I dis­cov­ered the rea­son I didn’t feel well and lacked energy. Mat­tieBoo arrived on Novem­ber 16, 1991.

5. Where is the best hid­ing place you know of?

Right here in my cozy home. I am quite good at hid­ing out here when I want to relax, unwind, and not social­ize. The phone calls can go to voice mail and the emails read later.

6. What extracur­ric­u­lar activ­i­ties did you do while at school?

You could always find me in the music and drama depart­ments. Through­out my school years, I sang in the var­i­ous choirs, was a mem­ber of the band for sev­eral years (play­ing clar­inet), par­tic­i­pated in all of the tal­ent and vari­ety shows, and was some­how involved in most of the plays, work­ing back­stage if I was not per­form­ing. I was also an edi­tor of and con­trib­u­tor to both the high school news­pa­per and yearbook.

7. Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this pic­ture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.


That reminds me of my boys. They like to feign shy­ness when they know that I am try­ing to snap a photo of them. Then we end up with pho­tos like this clas­sic from MattieBoo’s 16th birth­day din­ner at our favorite Mex­i­can restaurant:

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Saturday Nine: Everybody Is a Star

Saturday, January 30, 2010

1. Did you ever think that you’d be a star? If yes, doing what?

I used to tell my mother that when I grew up, I was going to be “rich and famous.” And we used to joke that she was going to live to be older than Methuse­lah, and we were going to be room­mates in the old folks’ home. Well, I’m not rich, I’m not famous, and although my mother lived to be nearly 89 years old, she missed Methuselah’s record by more than 800 years. So we never did get to be lit­tle old lady room­mates. Fail­ure on all three counts, although I did have the 15 min­utes of fame allot­ted to me by Andy Warhol dur­ing the six years that I lit­i­gated Con­ser­va­tor­ship of Wend­land. I don’t miss being chased around by reporters in search of an out-of-context sound bite.

2. Tell us about the last time you had a roman­tic dinner.

These days, I’m really enjoy­ing try­ing out new recipes and dishes here in the home I moved into this past Sep­tem­ber, and serv­ing them to my boys. Sophie advises and assists. We often light the fire and enjoy talk­ing together as we linger over our meal. They give me input on which dishes they like or don’t care for as much. Who needs romance when you have two sons as hand­some, intel­li­gent, and sup­port­ive of their mother as mine are?

3. Tell us about your worst job interview.

Law stu­dents are encour­aged to secure sum­mer clerk­ships with pri­vate firms as a way of gain­ing expe­ri­ence and net­work­ing. Many lawyers begin their careers with the firm where they served as a law clerk, and that was the case with me. I worked part-time through­out law school and set­tled in as a new attor­ney with the firm where I had been employed part-time dur­ing my last semes­ter and the fol­low­ing sum­mer while I stud­ied for the Bar Examination.

In search of such a clerk­ship between my sec­ond and third years of study, but preg­nant with Mattie-Boo, I bor­rowed a suit­able navy blue mater­nity dress from my sis­ter for inter­views. I met with the then-District Attor­ney of San Joaquin County. We talked over a cup of cof­fee in the base­ment of the Cour­t­house where he blew cig­a­rette smoke in my face as I responded to his ques­tions about my back­ground. That elim­i­nated his office as a poten­tial place of employment.

The next day, I was inter­viewed by a pri­vate prac­ti­tioner in a small com­mu­nity adja­cent to Lodi. He was a big guy with a big appetite for hunt­ing many dif­fer­ent kinds of prey and a huge desk. As I sat oppo­site him, I was dis­tracted by the stuffed ducks and geese dan­gling from the ceil­ing. Some of them appeared to be swoop­ing toward us. That attor­ney was the embod­i­ment of the term “blow hard” and called me “honey” dur­ing the inter­view. I decided at that moment that I would live in a card­board box under a free­way before I would work for him … or any­one like him. Later, in pri­vate prac­tice, I defeated him sev­eral times. Once he slammed the door of the cour­house so hard as he exited that the judge came back onto the bench to see what all the com­mo­tion was about and sent the bailiff to inves­ti­gate. And, in fact, he once ver­bally assaulted me dur­ing a depo­si­tion. As I walked out of his office behind my clients, I could feel his breath on the back of my neck, observed his wife star­ing at the parade in hor­ror as we passed her desk, and truly feared that he was going to phys­i­cally strike me. From the out­set of the depo­si­tion, he appeared ine­bri­ated, but I wasn’t sure until he flew into a tirade, dur­ing which I told my clients to go quickly to the park­ing lot, and, after mak­ing the record, I fol­lowed them. I learned later that after­noon that he had been in the restau­rant next to his office imbib­ing dur­ing the lunch hour. Remark­ably, he is still prac­tic­ing law in this county, although, in my opin­ion, he shouldn’t be.

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Rainbow in My Mirror

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Cali­for­nia has been wet, windy, and wild this week. On Mon­day after­noon, I was dri­ving west on High­way 4 near the Pitts­burgh BART sta­tion en route to Marin County. I looked in my rearview mir­ror and saw the most spec­tac­u­lar rain­bow I had seen in years. I wanted to stop and take a pho­to­graph, but that wasn’t fea­si­ble, so I did the next best thing: I held my iPhone up to the passenger-side mir­ror just to see if I could cap­ture the essence of the rain­bow. This is the result:

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Manic Show and Tell Monday

January 18, 2010
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1. About how many hours a week do you spend watch­ing TV?
I spend far fewer hours actu­ally watch­ing tele­vi­sion than the tele­vi­sion set is turned on. I lis­ten to more tele­vi­sion than I ever see because I have a hard time just sit­ting down and watch­ing unless I am tired and need to unwind or […]

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Writing My Life

January 1, 2010

Today I launched my new site, Writ­ing My Life! Each Sun­day I will post a writ­ing prompt and encour­age par­tic­i­pants to either answer the question(s) posed in a com­ment, or pub­lish a post on their own site in response to the prompt. Perma­links to indi­vid­ual posts can be included in a com­ment and each […]

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Happy Trails, 2009

December 31, 2009
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Sophie actu­ally allowed me to place these silly antlers on her for about a minute yes­ter­day. Big­Bob bought them sev­eral years ago and she would not tol­er­ate them for even a sec­ond. When I found them in a box, I decided to again try putting them on her and was shocked when she […]

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Wordful Wednesday

December 29, 2009
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Many folks have been blog­ging and Twit­ter­ing about tak­ing down all of their hol­i­day dec­o­ra­tions. One woman wrote that she had the tree down and every­thing stowed away for next year by mid­day on Christ­mas Day! She had dec­o­rated on Thanks­giv­ing and found her­self ready to be done with Christ­mas for this year.
I am still […]

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Sunday Stealing: The Final Week of 2009 Meme

December 27, 2009
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This week’s meme comes from Nik of Spat­ula Forum.
The Final Week of 2009 Meme
1. What did you do in 2009 that you’d never done before?
I guess the most impor­tant new expe­ri­ence I had was pur­chas­ing a home by myself. When I pur­chased houses in the past, the trans­ac­tion was a joint one with BigBob. […]

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Saturday Nine: Sam’s Last Stand of 2009

December 26, 2009
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Sam’s Last Stand of 2009
1. What did you think of 2009?
This has been a water­shed year for me in which I imple­mented plans that I made long ago, as well as spon­ta­neous ideas. This year brought me a lot of joy, soli­tude, and con­tent­ment, mixed with sor­row and ongo­ing reminders of both my own aging and […]

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